Plug the numbers in the MrMel calculator
http://heli.dacsa.net/calcv3/Default.aspx, and this may become clearer.
For your 1100Kv motor running on 35C 6S, with the 14T pinion:
(1) VBar governor "sweet spot" head speed range 2,465-2,564rpm. If you go below 2,382rpm, you loose efficiency and both motor and ESC run hotter.
(2) Castle governor will show the "warning" at 2,456rpm. Same low 2,382rpm as VBar.
So, for your desired HS range of 2,100-2,300rpm, the 14T pinion is
not ideal, and would explain in part why the ESC and motor are running hotter than you would like.
Go down to the 13T pinion:
(1) VBar 2,289-2381rpm, but don't go lower than 2,212rpm to keep ESC/motor cool.
(2) Castle warning at 2,280rpm. Same low of 2,212rpm as above.
Go down to the 12T pinion:
(1) VBar 2,113-2,198rpm. Low of 2,042rpm
(2) Castle warning at 2,105rpm
The VBar can govern higher HS more effectively than the Castle governor for any given pinion.
For your desired HS range of 2,100-2,300rpm, the 2,300rpm is better governed with the 13T pinion and the 2,100rpm with the 12T pinion. Since you probably won't be able to govern 2,300rpm with the 12T pinion, you may just use the 13T pinion, and understand that you will loose efficiency at lower than 2,212rpm which manifest as ESC and motor run hotter.
BTW, if you go with 2,100rpm, and want solid tail authority with the 96mm tail blades, the optional 4.5 tail ratio is the way to go to keep the tail spinning between 9,500-10,000rpm.