Careful with the FBL system, they are only about as stiff as stock, but with LESS allowable movement of the axle because of the delrin inserts. That system is to fine tune the head for pilots who want something more custom matched to their flying style and may not fly hard 3D OR maybe they fly with less aggressive inputs as witnessed in your video. Matt's setup is designed for a broad range of pilots and allows maximum axle angle, Truebloods for hard 3D /high rpm, FBL to tune your dampening at stock or softer levels but has limited axle travel. Hope this helps!
I'm currently running the FBL setup in a few of my machines, tuning each setup to my flying style. I have yet to run into troubles but I see your flying has more aggressive/combined inputs.
The biggest thing to understand is that Hard 3D doesn't mean the machine is flown with less precision and overly aggressive inputs. I'm not bashing your flying, just trying to point out that any machine of any brand can and has been maimed in flight due to pilot inputs. Before I flew Synergy, I was crippling machines left and right, I thought the machines were at fault until I realized my "hard" flying was indeed hard but also not good.
A car may have two pedals, sometimes 3 and a shifter...but that doesn't mean it's ok to press or engage any combination of them at will, or randomly, or in any way the driver deems appropriate at the time. The more power and capabilities the car has, it requires even more refinement of inputs and respect. F1 cars are far from just mashing down the go pedal and buzzing around the track until you cross the finish.
Rob