grinding the end of the setscrew defeats the purpose of using a setscrew, at that point you are turning it into a SHCS with a flat tip. a setscrew has a cup point on it. when you tighten it down, the cup point engagement is what really allows the setscrew to bite whatever it is engaging. don't grind the end off of a setscrew, it will never hold like it should if you do this. next time you pull a setscrew that you haven ground off out, look at the shaft (or whatever it is engaging), and see the round indention in the shaft. that is the cup point engagement point.