sounds like you have your basics covered. a few other things to check/try....
1) bump your HS up and/or down 20-30 HS at a time and see how that goes. not all engines are the same some like a little more rpm, some like a little lower to find their happy place. i deal with this with gasser motors all the time, you would be amazed at what 30HS difference can do, that translates into a larger engine rpm obviously...
2) be darn sure your gov is actually working. i set my throttle curves up so close to the gov HS, it is hard to tell if i have a gov issue. the main sign to me....a twitchy, agitated, or otherwise unhappy tail. i actually ran into this just this week with my N7. i accidentally got some programming off in the vbar and my gov was not working properly, the instance i saw that tail unhappy, i knew exactly what was going on.
the vbar is an amazing FBL, you really shouldn't have any tail issues. not with the silverline on a nitro anyway. it seems to be the best to me dealing with the tail, and raised vibration levels with nitro and gas. it just holds well without question.
is your fuel tank happy, or foaming up?