dude i'm sorry, but your doing something wrong. I have never had a coupler break, ever. I have been flying these nitro helis for 3 years, the same 3 couplers the entire time.....
I bought spares, but have never ever ever needed one of them.
check your alignment, check your starter shaft (on the starter itself) it needs to be in good shape and not be wearing down. be sure your not hydro locking also, that is easier to do than you think. is your start shaft in good shape? do you have a bad vibration that could possibly be weakening the coupler? how tight are you setting the set screws, too tight is worse than not tight enough....
you simply don't see posts like this about the synergy start coupler, you just don't. meaning that there is not a problem with the part, but the install or use.
I hope I didn't come off harsh, but I don't want people to read your post stating you wish gaui or another brand would fit this heli and think there is actually a problem, because there is not.